|"Rest In Peace" photo © Paula Scott Molokai Girl Studio|
The site where our Rio Rancho Police Officer Benner was shot on May 25th is less than 1/4 mile from my house. The next day, the site where he wa shot became a makeshift memorial site. Each day it grew and each day, no matter what time of day, people were there-standing in silent prayer, thanking him out loud, weeping over his death (total strangers to the officer, mind you). I posted quite a few images on my Facebook page if you want to get a good idea as to the extent of it. People were bringing by flowers, flags, notes, stuffed animals, votive candles, etc. It has all been overwhelming and moving. Within 24 hours a candlelight vigil was held and the community of Rio Rancho was there en masse to show their support to the family and to the police department. I couldn't help but swell with pride over it all and that's what I tried to convey on this blog posting that I had done in regards to that (it was late when I wrote it and I guess I didn't convey that as well as I'd have liked to).
But, one reader from another part of our country commented on my blog posting in this manner:
To say "America take notice," says that you're oblivious to what's happening with Americans and the people who police them. It's fantastic that there's an outpouring of support for this man's family. He seems like he was a genuinely descent human being. However, the people of Rio Rancho have never been abused by this officer and his ilk. Rio Rancho is not the rest of the country. To claim some sort of superiority over people who have been brutalized because they don't mourn the people who have brutalized them the way you in Rio Rancho are mourning is ridiculous.
I will say it again, that I am proud of our community's response not only to the family of Officer Benner, but to our department. Yes, we do have a public safety department that has great leadership and training. It is something that I consider to be one of the city's greatest asset.
Aside from the intense outpouring of grief from the community, what I've also witnessed here are parents bringing their children to the makeshift memorial site to show their respect. All the heartfelt notes that these children wrote-as parents use this opportunity to teach their children to respect our law enforcement officers. That is something that I feel has eroded from the fabric of our society-this concept of respect and gratitude for what is a dangerous job. The families of law enforcement officers never know if their loved one will return from work that day. Could you live with that on a day to day basis?
If your city offers a ride-along program with their police officers, go do it-and do it on Thanksgiving night when domestic violence is at its worse. Find ways to better understand what these men and women do everyday and ask what you can do to better support them. Marching in protest and destroying small businesses does not become an agent of change. The people who are out there protecting us deserve our support-and yes, there will be some 'bad eggs'-but, let's not throw out the baby with the bathwater.
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